Often met with a girl chat, she replies to “eh”, “um”, “ha ha”, “ha”, “…” people do not know how to answer, today to say that encounter this situation, how to respond to her.
In fact, when we talk with girls, the most important thing is not what we talk about, how long we talk, but the state we bring to our girls through chatting.
If she is willing to talk with you, even if you talk about some very dull topics, you can also talk very well.
If she doesn’t want to talk to you, she doesn’t want to talk to you about any more wonderful topics or funny things.
Some partners have misunderstandings about chatting, thinking that the more frequent the chat, the longer the time, the more likely the younger sister to have a good impression of themselves, otherwise the time will be long. In fact, it is not like this, do not chat as a task, chat is not necessarily a lot of chat, it is not good to chat non-stop.
If your sister and you have a pleasant conversation, she is also willing to share the topic, and your conversation goes on smoothly, indicating that she is willing to talk to you, you do not need to worry about talking at all.
If your sister replies slowly and cares for words like gold, it means she doesn’t want to talk more. What you have to do at this time is not to think about how to reply, how to keep talking with her, but to find an excuse to end the chat, such as a little friend asked me out to play.
Sometimes she responds slowly, with few words, and it depends on circumstances. For example, you had a good chat, and she suddenly responded with a brief, “Hmm”, “Ha-ha”, “Eh” as if it was meaningless and you could switch to another topic.
Let’s see if we can chat smoothly. If we can, we can continue to have a pleasant chat.
If she’s chatting and her replies are repeated, it means she doesn’t want to keep talking to you.
Just as you are impatient with a person, what kind of behavior will you be more comfortable with?
1, this person continues to annoy you.
2, this person walks away with interest.
Surely the second will bring a better impression, which is also a sign of stop loss.
If you find that the girls are getting impatient and less motivated to respond, you need to take a decisive exit rather than wait for a chat to die.