When I was in college, David once cooked a sister paper and became my first girlfriend in college.
I used a simpler strategy to make this girlfriend, that is, to fix her BFF (best friend forever).
Why did David do this?
Let’s take a look at the initial stage of attraction.
1, the formation of ambiguous relations, such as chatting, can be molested, the other will cooperate.
2, breaking away from friendship zone is the danger of being separated from the “good guys card”.
3, the presentation of primary high value shows some easily perceived values, such as:
Wealth (perceived), family background, physique, humor, social control, fashion sense, willingness to give up, etc.
4, there is a common topic of privacy. Do something that only two of you can understand, and no one outside knows. For example, you give her a role, then you start acting.
5, cause the other side’s active attention. The other person will take the initiative to find information related to you, and will take the initiative to find opportunities to meet you.
Women’s thinking is very easy to guide, especially vulnerable to the influence of people around them.
A lot of boys pursue a girl, the initial response is good, but it is difficult to make an appointment, the main reason is the lack of attraction.
If you’re chasing a girl who doesn’t intersect with your circle, you should deal with her girlfriend.
Especially in school, very good, such as repairing the computer, redo the system, in the dining hall to see the initiative to invite drinks, call the other dormitory, if it is her girlfriend to answer, you can also chat for a while, brush the sense of existence.
When girls are not attracted, there are two purposes for you to do well with your girlfriends.
1, reduce your sense of need for girls.
2, show your social skills.
Grandma Wang sells melons and boasts of herself. It’s no use trying to say good things about herself, but a good word from her girlfriend can make a difference. Not only the testimony of the third party, but also your social value.
Therefore, it is very helpful to make good use of your friends around to promote your relationship with girls.
I just got to know each other very soon, especially in parties and parties, because the knowledge is random and the two sides don’t know much, so intelligence work is very important.
Now there are many communication tools, QQ space, micro-blog information, Weixin friends circle, strangers, Renren are all your channels to collect information.
If you have the opportunity to know girls’ friends and girlfriends, they should be the focus of attack. At the very beginning, there was a strong sense of need for the target girls, and the attractiveness would be greatly reduced.
Talk to her girlfriend, because they are not strong demand, easier to start, and you are not afraid to act too active and lose attraction, can be bold “buy”.
Girls love gossip, and mixing other people’s statements is very positive. If you want to pursue a girl, her girlfriend will become your good friend.
Girlfriend is the best channel for you to get information, and helps you brush your presence around a girl. If she talks about you in front of her, she will naturally have a special impression of you, less strangeness and curiosity.
Another point is very important. Communication with girlfriends needs to be very sincere, so it is easy to handle the relationship well.
When you have a girl’s girlfriend, and then arrange an activity, a party, you can easily become the focus, because the girl’s friends are your friends, your own friends can do your support.
Any girl will be attracted to you when you’re a social leader.
For example, in social activities, when you need to make a decision, say well in advance, let everyone ask you to make a decision, or create some unpleasant and controversial scene, the situation is difficult to control, and finally you “put it right”.If you are already popular, easy to handle, or even do not need to prepare, as long as the gathering in your circle, you can easily hold, girls will fall in love with you sooner or later.